Planning to get married? Beware!

If you are planning to get married, beware! Private detectives may be keeping an eye on your past and present.

A detective may be keeping an eye on you With matrimonial websites and agencies now becoming more common,parents are increasingly roping in detective agencies to crosscheck the veracity of claims made by prospective grooms and brides. The "investigations" include whether the to-be groom or bride had any "intimate"relationship with anyone, their activities after working hours, educational background and health.

The trend has been increasing like anything where parents are mostly concerned about prospective match's moral character and relationship status, we need for such hired personnel to verify the credentials of prospective better-halves has increased, he said. "Earlier family friends and neighbours frequently actedas middlemen or mediators in the process of matchmaking. As a result the reliability was high.

The trend of independent verification has increased now with more and more websites and agencies coming into play in the business of matchmaking as their clients are being presented in an attractive manner by hiding vital information.

While a clean professional and personal character is what most parents look for, in many cases they also want to know whether the concerned boy or girl was involved with someone. "Moral behaviour on part of the prospective match is of paramount importance to families, who often seek information regarding activities after working hours.

We put the concerned person under constant surveillance and station people to monitor their hang-out joints and late night destinations. We also monitor their associations with friends of opposite sex to get a reasonable view of their behaviour. Not just that, the detectives, also keep a tab on the number of visits made by the person to his or her doctor. The instances of the surveillance yielding negative results are substantial, adding that 20 to 30 per cent of the people scanned fail to cross the "morality metre". "The percentage is really high, where we find boy or girl still maintaining their past relationships after getting engaged. We generally advice prospective in-laws not to go ahead with the alliance based on our findings.

Ayurveda to boost sex

Sex is one of the most essential aspects of our life and Ayurveda offers one of the best ways to lead a gratifying sex life without any artificial a


Ayurvedic herbs to boost sex driveids such as medicines minus side effects and other unnatural methods. Ayurvedic medicines stimulate the body to heal itself naturally. There are many Ayurvedic herbs which act as very effective sex tonics and also have the ability to revitalise the bodily systems making them free from diseases.

These inexpensive and often rather ordinary looking Ayurvedic herbs produce excellent results if taken properly, as they are also free from any side effects. "On their own however these might not even work for you. He further adds, "In Ayurveda there are three main organising principles of nature that are found in every person, in nature, and in all other beings. These principles operate throughout nature and can be seen in the changes of the time of day and the change of seasons.

These three governing principles are called Vata, Pitta and Kapha doshas and on the basis of these, herbs used in combination deliver satisfactory results. Although adaptogenic herbs (herbs that increase body's resistance to stress, trauma and fatigue ) are similar in concept, each herb is unique and should be chosen with care and under the guidance of a good Ayurvedic practitioner. If we just treat each patient in the same way, then it is not effective. Ayurveda, however, recognises that each person is unique and each person needs to be treated according to the imbalance of their doshas ." What is Vata, Pitta and Kapha ?

Vata is responsible for all movement in the body and controls respiratory organs, circulation, movement in the digestive tract, and impulses traveling through the nerves. Pitta is energy and it regulates the digestive process, metabolism, heat, and energy production, while Kapha balances the fluids.

Each individual is made up of the three doshas , yet in varying degrees. A person with more Vata will be thin, quick, creative, lively in thoughts, speech and action, and can make friends easily. However, if the Vata is out of balance, that person will be anxious, worried, overwhelmed, fretful, have dry skin and high blood pressure. A person with a predominance of Pitta in his physiology will be of medium proportions, with a frame that is neither petite nor heavy. They will have a warm, sensitive skin, fine hair and will be sharp and determined in thought, speech and action.

However, if the Pitta is out of balance, that person can be irritable, angry, demanding, and impatient, prone to skin rashes, premature graying, and thinning of hair. A Kapha-type person is of larger proportions with good muscles. They have thick,smooth skin and rich, wavy hair. They are generous, kind, forgiving, calm, loyal and possess a good memory. Out of balance Kaphas are dull and lethargic, have oily skin, they gain weight, and have a slow digestion. They can become emotionally attached, and suffer from allergies, congestive problems and heart disease